Wednesday 18 April 2018

It's complicated

Complicated is the state of affairs. When life begins to loose the edges, things or rather relationships wane and wilter, you call that complicated. But ever wonder why do things or emotions get so terribly mired into a haze or blurr. Maybe somewhere, someplace, you never gave words to the emotions that you felt. Once long back or still feel every once in a while. I believe expression is critical in every relationship. Even in friendships. If someone at some point in life meant the world, how many times do we gather enough thought to come out and say that, yes you did matter. Life changes. People leave and disappear. Often we are left with that nagging feeling of what if I had just said so. Asked them to wait. Just a bit till I could catch up. It really doesn't take much. Growing up and making peace with that which couldn't be, requires significant amount of effort and control. But every now and then, what if it could still be, if only you could acknowledge and express. Life is long and regret is the biggest tragedy. So please don't. One never knows if there is sunshine on the flip side. You just need to toss.

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